Hello. regulated and emotionally intelligent person here
I bring good tidings and myrrh. From my life!!! 😎
I just realised... I don't hurt anyone except myself. Because I am so high EQ I can be nice to people that trigger me on purpose deeply for their own entertainment, besides the biscuits they eat whole staring down the void hanging upside down like a bat and watching Miranda Hart's fictional BF play Satan in a drama(edy? TV show idk lolz Never seen it). But I realised. I don't have to be nice. I can tell them they done wrong & leave them alone!!! I don't have to "ignore them" either!!! I can say what I think and then go back to eating a fudgin ciabatta w all my new friends :) it's boundaries. And it doesn't matter that abusing PTSD survivors is so common. It doesn't matter that we're told "ignore It" and they carry on abusing the suffering. It is always wrong and the right people will be GLAD I SPOKE! I don't have to isolate myself either just because people make me scared. I don't have to be bullied for isolating myself by pointless social climbers who use me for how cool I am w my vibey sunglasses and effortless bread kept in the freezer so it doesn't go off, and other stuff too, like always listening whenever the conversation gets serious. I can just be, and you, too, my friend, are allowed to exist without feeling afraid. You can be strong and you can be brave. Ignore the time wasters and embrace radical If It's Gotta Be Done, Imma Do It (Myself). The Lord shall Prune, then, only then. Xoxo gossip girl