u/Infamous-Error9987

Just as the title says any of you feel different emotionally?

I'm on my second kyleena. But honestly my moods are up and down and I don't know if its the cause. As i have had a coil for 7 years its like i don't know different.

Sometimes sex is painful (like after I can get what can only be described as contraction pains) or partner feels it. I get stages of spots (I'm 32) and some days i wanna cry, next day I'm hyper.

Tryna work out if i'm just unhinged or if it could be the Kyleena messing me up.

Considering a full on break from contraception to find out who I am 😅

I just need to get this out I guess.

SD is nearly 4. Been in life 18 months. Recently went to an event and BM was there. It was a big event so I could have avoided her completely and wouldn't have mattered. But i thought i'd make the effort to say hi and talk to her. Was a nice conversation and good to talk.

She mentioned she was upset a while back I bathed daughter. Wasnt mad at me, more at partner for not 'asking' I simply apologised and said it wasnt intentional to upset her. There was no anger just a couple of drinks and a good chit chat.

I always ask partner what he's comfortable with before i do anything. His daughter asked for me with bath time.. so I just did it. I honestly didn’t think about it. We had discussed everything like this prior and all was fine. Have probs given her 5-6 baths because its just fun for both of us. Silly games/toys so liked to do it.

Recently him and his mum were just avoiding baths when I was around or getting in there first even though it became something I did.. I could tell something was up I guess but only now I've thought about it... they have just skirted being open and honest with me.

Now I just feel like an absolute idiot. I've tried so hard with this child and I just never know the right way to be.

Would you address it? I really don't want to get caught up in to and from between the parents. But I just feel like the idiot in the room.