Looking for clarity on a behavior I see a lot from Women
So I'm looking for clarity on a specific behavior I see a lot from women on apps, and to clarify this could be a problem with men too but my only experience is with women since that's who I match with. The scenario plays out like this, I send a message to match based on something in their profile that typically ends in a question for them to respond to. Some time passes, they match, but say nothing in return. The match usually sits there for several days without any follow up from them. My options are to either double message, or unmatch because I'm not getting any response.
The question is, why match if you're not going to talk to me? My assumption is it's someone who typically doesn't use the app frequently, they match and then basically forget and never come back to it. But at that point why be on the app at all?