Why did the flirty colleague just start to ignore me?
Im a 31 year old woman, and I see myself as quite attractive. For months I have been greeted by this guy from my office, and we’ve talked a lot at the coffee machine about sports etc. I have had the impression he was flirting with me, because no one else is that eager to greet me and go talk to me.
A month ago I decided to make the next move and added him on SoMe. I was hoping he would get the hint and text me or something, but he didn’t really act on it. Some weeks later I texted him on the app with a very lowkey text about his sports, and he just answered friendly but without any follow-up or any try to keep the conversation going.
I felt very rejected and very confused about his signals. For some weeks I kinda stayed away from his area at the office and kept some distance.
But now he has yet again started to approach me and keep eye contact etc.
So what the f*** is going on here??? Am I misunderstanding his signals? Is he shy? What? Please enlighten me