Boyfriends girl best friend
I think my boyfriend’s friend that is a girl has a crush in him and is/has been plotting on him.
For context my boyfriend (18) and i(18) have been dating for over a year and have talked on and off for two-three years before dating. He met his girl best friend about a year before i ever met him.
He never mentioned her when we started talking until the last time we talked before i ghosted him for a few months. When he mentioned her she was brought up as his childhood friend and the only friend he likes to hang out with. She was also the girl he’s gone the farthest with. (Before me) which is already a very grey area. And even more background info on that is he dint even tell me it was her, i figured it out myself after we started dating. My bf use to be an addict and she is still actively an addict. That is how they bonded and became such good friends to begin with. I soon found out that she dosesnt have much friends either and the friends she does have are men. My bf had said himself that “she cant ever keep friends that are girls”. Which if you’re a girl yk exactly why.
My bf only smokes weed now and that is what they do when they hang out. Just smoke and get high. They dont ever do anything else as far as im aware.
Now the reason why i think she wants him or is plotting on him is that she comes to him about everything. Whenever her shitty boyfriends leave her she comes running to MY bf. She talks to my bf about her sex life and what she likes and to me that shit is weird to tell your guy friend. She seeks comfort and support in him which to me feels more than just friendly comfort that shes craving. Her boyfriends usually dont let her be friends with my bf but they talk behind her boyfriends backs anyways.
I dont know if i sound jealous or paranoid but it makes me rather uncomfortable. I trust my bf because i know he loves and cares deeply for me. I’ve also never met or spoke to his girl best friend in over a year of us dating. Let me know your opinion!
Edit: If i asked him to stop being her friend he would but i wouldnt make it stop unless it turned into something weird but atp i wouldnt break up with him immediately because i do not fuck with cheaters