I have been told that I might have psychic capabilities and I am very intuitive. I have always been able to sense ghosts, and I have strong connections with some spirit guides and ancestors. However, I have never actually channeled anyone or had a being show up unannounced in my consciousness. I would love some guidance about how to deal with this from experience channelers and psychics**.**
Late last night in bed my wife and I were talking about her mother who she loved dearly. My wife believes that she was her mom‘s favorite. At the same time, my wife is queer as am I, and her mom had a really bad reaction to her coming out and was very cruel and dismissive. My wife is very sad about it to this day. She was telling me about some of those things, her mom said, and did that hurt her when all of a sudden I feel this very strong presence over my right shoulder. I immediately know that it is her mom’s spirit wanting to communicate with her. I sensed intense longing, love and regret. She showed me how much she wanted to hold Deb and comfort her. I was so surprised by this that I just blurted out to my wife what I was experiencing. She looked really uncomfortable and said “well I don’t feel her and it feels strange to have you telling me about my mom. I don’t wanna talk about this anymore because it’s making me sad.”
Of course I want to respect her boundaries and I will. But I feel so blindsided and confused and triangled in now. It’s not my place to have a position on how my wife should think about her mom and at the same time I have this very strong feeling impression from the visitation last night that I don’t really know what to do with.
So I would love guidance about that, and I’m also thinking I need to do some kind of protective ceremony so that I’m not randomly visited by spirits when I have not invited them. Would love guidance about that too.