38 years with my husband and I'm ready to ask for divorce due to "my issue"
My husband used to work night shift so I guess I simply didn't notice it as much but the last 3 years he is now on the same schedule as me and we eat dinner at the same time and weekend meals. I do not ever want to eat a meal with him. He puts so much in his mouth and the noise is beyond what I can deal with. He also snorts, clears throat and blows his nose at every meal now. We've been together for 38 years and like mostly happy bit He gets enraged when I bring this up like I'm condemning something he can't control or at least that's what he says. Car rides are also intolerable for the same types of reasons to the point I was using mile markers and counting how many times he cleared his throat or snorted (he says sniff) each mile to where I about wanted to get out and walk home. Any time I bring it up he gets so insulted and almost brings him to tears and shuts down and says I'm so critical of him with this. I honestly don't know what to do. Any advice and please don't recommend eating at different times as I have brought this up and he thinks this suggestion is so mean