Condom help… 28m and 25F
Hello I, 28m and my new partner 25f have recently been getting intimate. The only problem is I’m not really used to using condoms which I thought wasn’t a big deal but it’s been an adjustment. I’ve never really used condoms in my entire life. I’ve had mostly long term partners where condoms weren’t needed because my other partners have been on birth control and I was with them for very long periods of time. My new partner doesn’t like birth control has been on it and it makes them feel crappy and causes problems for them. I support the no birth control but she uses some form of tracking with some kind of ring that figures it out through temperature whatever. The problem is the last new times I’ve used condoms I keep getting soft after some time…. I have no history of this and I’m very attracted to my partner so idk if it’s the condoms or me… I lose sensation and sometimes lose feeling when I have been using condoms. Usually we have to stop and I’ll have to reset. I don’t have any form of medical problems and have been known to have pretty good stamina no problem lasting hours and finishing multiple times. But I’m finding there is some pain around the area where the condom goes and I know it’s not STD related as we were both tested before being intimate. Can anyone recommend some good brands or does anyone have any help or is it just something I have to get used to? I’ve been using the Trojan lubricated and bare skin brands types. Is it a size issue? I don’t have a small penis or a super wide one basically longish and normal width I would say….but I wouldn’t say it’s anything crazy. IThe best way to describe it, it feels like someone’s taking my blood pressure on my penis and after a little while I get soft which is a little frustrating and makes me feel like less of a man.