Is my boyfriend losing interest? And what could be the reason for it.
Okay so me and my boyfriends relationship was absolutely perfect but lately I wonder if he still likes me. It’s not always but sometimes we just have these moments or he says something and it just makes my throat burn if that the correct explanation of the feeling. Like for example when we are in public for example in a museum he barely walks next to me, mostly walks by himself doesn’t really start conversation with me and absolutely no physical contact. I have asked him about it but communication isn’t his best skill, eventually I got out of him that he finds it “Cringe” when others do it and that why he doesn’t want to do it with me. Another thing I thought could be the cause is that he thinks gym girls are hot but I am tall and skinny and always been that way and am happy with my physique and I personally don’t think I would like a muscular body on myself. The things he wants to do for me also went downhill, we went from hanging out everyday and him biking 10 km to my house to him not wanting to bike 3 kilometres to my house because he wants to rest (He said that after telling me he wanted to hang out that day and I changed
My plans for that). And he just gets a little meaner and sounds bored with me, no interest unless my clothes come off. Playing games on his phone the second we are together and just everytime I ask him something it’s just a “idk” or just a weak answer. He doesn’t remember cute details about me like he used to gosh there is just so much. I really miss what I used to have, is it possible to have something to do with my looks, if yes what do men usually like in woman so I can make myself look better? Making him “jealous” feels like a bad option + I’m not like that at all 😅. I’ve never stopped doing the things I did in the beginning so that can’t be a the problem. Sorry this is probably a really bad written rant but it annoys me and I need some advice 😭