I am not hating. I'm simply questioning your ideologies.
You guys say you don't want a materialistic, transactional relationship with an American woman, but you travel to another objectively poorer country, with a woman who doesn't speak your language, nor share any culture, and expect to find a loving relationship? Especially as a man from the US? A majority of the time, they see a visa and money, and that's about it.
And even if it's not for a relationship, and just for sex, is that not exactly what you're claiming to get away from in the US? "Promiscuous" women?
I feel like a lot of your ideas of what an American woman is are very generalized due to social media, not every woman is preaching feminism ( even if it's just another word for female independence ). Most aren't trying to find men with money or unrealistic expectations towards appearance. They want a connection. And most aren't going to find that in a completely different culture.