u/Inside-Map-3335

we kissed but not dating!! what should I do?

hello everyone!! So basically we kissed and we aren’t together! I was super happy because there’s been a lot of things leading up to it! (Asking to kiss, friends teasing us to start dating, compliments, etc)

but after the excitement wore down a little bit, I’m kind of scared because we are both girls, we’ve been friends for around 5 years and she has a family that doesn’t really support her and I’m super scared that she may not want to date me or everything will be a secret that we will have to take to the grave! I have no idea how she feels about it!!! But I know I want to be with her but I will not be able to keep everything a secret!!

If she asked me to be her girlfriend, I would say yes in a heartbeat! I can’t ask any of my friends about this because I know she does not like her business being aired out. And I feel a bit of guilt for not telling any of my friends, even though they might have caught on. I want to respect her privacy and her as a person but I am freaking out!

Currently I’m thinking to just ask her what are relationship is as soon as possible when we see eachother again. I have no idea what the future holds! Thank you for reading! What should I do!!!

reddit.com
u/Inside-Map-3335 — 5 days ago