u/Inside-Scarcity-9140

I don’t know if it’s just me but I really can’t ignore this
I can be having a good time with someone and everything feels fine, but then something small happens and I notice how they talk to people they don’t really “need” like staff or random strangers
It’s not even big things. Just tone, attitude, little reactions to small stuff
And it just puts me off instantly. Like I suddenly see them differently.
Maybe I’m overthinking it but once I notice it, I can’t unsee it

I don't know if I'm overreacting, but this really stuck with me

I was out with someone recently and everything seemed fine at first. But when the waiter made a small mistake, they suddenly got really rude and dismissive for no reason.

It wasn't even a big deal, but the way they spoke to someone who was just doing their job completely changed how I see them.

I can't stop thinking about it. It made me realize that how someone treats people they don't benefit from says a lot more than how they treat you

Now I just feel turned off and I don't look at them the same way