u/Inside-Tone-3695

I've never shared on this website before, I don't know how this works but here goes. I'm in a toxic relationship with my choir teacher, I'm a first year choir student, at my school there are three choir concert choir, bella voche and, chamber choir. Concert choir is for anyone who puts the class (I'm currently in btw)on your schedule so the beginners choir the others are audition only. At the beginning of the year I had problems showing up and paying attention I have been kicked off the concerts for that but have been added back day before like a cycle I would goof off and not take it seriously. He has talked to me about that with punishment and I have learned from my mistakes and am completely accountable for my actions during the last concert of the year we have four days left until then today I was 10-15 minutes late to our hour and fifty minutes rehearsal and have been emedietly sent to the office with a referral i don't know what to do I have talked to my teacher a little bit about my home life during the last concert because I also was out of that one to and I advocated for myself but he still decided to go with him punishment until day of concert noe he seems persistent on his punishment but this time I was kicked out of choir altogether and have to go to the office during class but ever since the last concert he has only talked to me about my good behavior because I locked in and focused and genuinely was passionate about it shown appreciation for the music and have gave it my all in the best ways I've can I have not been late like this in a hit minute I am usually on time when my friends in choir have heard about the punishment they were shocked qnd have admitted to consecutively skipping class and have been caught by him walking out the music hall doors and hace not beej punished at all i doh knkw what to do i have a meeting with the principal tomorrow