Hey! How's it going. I'm Jane. I'm 35 and I'm pansexual and poly. I have a nesting partner. I had a girlfriend for about a year and a half, but she decided that she wanted to be monogamous with her other partner and I fully respect her decision.
I am a professional introvert as you might say. My only real source of putting myself out there is attending my children's school events and doing a small stream once in a while on tiktok. I do like to travel, but I get very nervous when trying to "break the ice" with people in real life.
I'm 5 10
210 lbs
Medium length auburn hair
Lots of tattoos.
Pros for talking/ dating me
I am nice and friendly. I can make friends with anyone, usually.
I keep things told to me in confidence very close to my chest.
I'm told I am great as a sounding board.
I listen to listen, not just listen to find a way to interject myself.
I love to cuddle and hold hands and have intimacy that isn't sexual. I value consent and I would never want anyone to feel like they are a piece of meat or that they are just a phase. I've been there and I know it sucks and I would never want anyone to feel like that.
Cons of talking to/dating me
I cuss, quite a bit in fact in real life.
My nesting partner and I own our own business and sometimes that has me at work for around 14 hours some days. It's not every week, but there are a couple of days a month when my communication goes down, but I always try to talk during my breaks. I don't think I ever go a full day without talking or at least letting you know. And I always try to send good morning messages.
My thoughts are not always put together, as best as i would like. Sometimes I trip over my words or stutter.. I tend to talk about cleaning or obsessing over something I just read, and you will hear all about it.
In fact that is the only gossip you will hear from me, because I have no real life friends I do not have any juicy tid bits to share from people close to me. However, I do talk about fictional characters like they are real people and I like to talk about reality TV or movies.