So our relationship was doing all good, I mean PERFECT way possible, and from all the FaceTime, endless texting, her planning to come and visit me(we checked even the flights together on a FaceTime video) in 2 months time. But waking up to a text that she had anxiety and she hasn’t healed enough and ended things. She even blocked me on IG. I respected her decision and YES, called it off!! But after a day she texted asking if we could stay in touch and hoping once she has some good healing we can talk regularly. Saying that she appreciates me and yet she knows that if she doesn’t heal enough, she won’t be able to show up fully. So I’m here wondering what to say to her. I mean could it be that she still wants us to be? or is just a situationship she’s keeping me on? Any Advice?
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So our relationship was doing all good, I mean PERFECT way possible, and from all the FaceTime, endless texting, her planning to come and visit me(we checked even the flights together on a FaceTime video) in 2 months time. But waking up to a text that she had anxiety and she hasn’t healed enough and ended things. She even blocked me on IG. I respected her decision and YES, called it off!! But after a day she texted asking if we could stay in touch and hoping once she has some good healing we can talk regularly. Saying that she appreciates me and yet she knows that if she doesn’t heal enough, she won’t be able to show up fully. So I’m here wondering what to say to her. I mean could it be that she still wants us to be? or is just a situationship she’s keeping me on? Any Advice?
I feel sad, the pain, the over thinking. I have been talking to her for over weeks, the connection was real, we both felt it, and I was planning to go and visit her, and she me! We had a lot of face time video call every day and the communication was so reciprocal. We had our last video call at night and she told me the following day she will be attending her nieces birthday, at her sister’s place. The day came, she checked up on me during the day, said she’s thinking of me and sent hugs and kisses, said she’s will message later. I waited up to the normal hours that I usually know that she will be probably home almost heading to bed. Then I got her text! Guys!!! It hurts, but I guess I just have to move on!