u/Insideouthere

I'm a very straight acting bi male. I've only dated women. I started playing with males when I was around 19 or 20. Love jerking guys off, giving /receiving oral, phone sex. (Never anal or kissing). I get off on all types of gay porn.

Not long after I started dating my wife (almost 8 years ago) I came out to her as Bi. I've stayed faithful to her. I still watch gay porn. She's 100% straight. She's never had an issue with my past and sexual orientation.

Sometimes I make lighthearted remarks "Hey baby, how about you let your gay husband lay you down?" Or during sex, I'll talk about gay stuff. She's always been cool about it.

The other night, I asked her, seriously, "What do you think of all this? Did you ever think you'd marry a bi-sexual?"

She said "I don't really think you're bi. I think you're hyper-sexual. You do what feels good. You're into feeling the adrenaline along with the pleasure."

I kinda get what she's saying. Receiving a bj is fun no matter who is giving it. But I told her "I'll sit there and get rock hard for an hour while watching gay porn" or "Fondling a guy turns me on."

She said "That's where the adrenaline comes in."

I don't think she's in denial about being married to a bi-sexual. I think she's looking at things objectively from a different angle and really open minded.

When hooking up w a stranger to swap oral, how much of a jerk does either guy have to be...to be anything other than "shower fresh"?

I made this post a few days ago. It was removed by the mods because it said I was implying to meet up or requesting DMs. I AM NOT doing either of those. This is strictly sharing thoughts and asking for feedback. -

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Not long after I started dating my wife, I came out to her as bi. She's the only person in my life that knows.

The main reason I told her was because I didn't want to her to freak out when she might see that I have gay porn on my favorites list. I told her "I have nothing to hide, feel free to go through my phone if you ever want to...but here's what you might find."

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I told her details of all my experiences. My last bi experience was about 2 years before we started dating.

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She's cool with everything, but obviously I'm 100% faithful to her no matter what. So, no more guys (or ladies) for me.

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I told her I wanted to start posting on here so I could share stories and get my bi "fix", albeit just thru words. She said, "No problem..but no more d*cks for you."

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Anyone else have an understanding significant other?

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I sometimes fantasize about being with the best of both worlds...A feminine passing, large chested she-male, with a great c*ck.

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Does anyone have any experience with this? How was it?

Not long after I started dating my wife, I came out to her as bi. She's the only person in my life that knows.

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I told her details of all my experiences. My last bi experience was about 2 years before we started dating.

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She's cool with everything, but obviously I'm 100% faithful to her no matter what. So, no more guys (or ladies) for me.

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I told her I wanted to open a reddit account so I could share stories and get my bi "fix", albeit just thru words. She "No problem..but no more dicks for you."

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So...what do you want to talk about?

AMA... Back in the Craigslist days I met a guy that lived close to where I work. He would blow me from time to time on my lunch break or sometimes after work. This went on for about 4 or 5 years. We never saw each other any other time than those.

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We barely talked outside of what we said in the moment. We knew very little about each other. I knew where he lived ( because that's where we always met). I knew he was married. He knew I worked nearby.

We didn't even know each other's name, although his last name was on artwork on the wall.

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We did have a couple conversations about getting a group together, but it never happened.

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It was a great arrangement. We haven't seen each other in about 8 or 9 years.

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Anyone else ever have any awesome regular setups like that?

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