Too intense to my friend? I creeped them out
I feel like that I creeped my friend out by coming on too strong. I realized that we're not that close, but I truly care for them. I sometimes like to introduce them to my other friends, and they're not interested. I like to tell them about my life, but I feel like oversharing. I like to be silly, but I feel like being annoying. I try to connect them with my interests or their interests, but I feel like I am selling something to them. Like for example, I tried to ask what's their favorite genre of games to have a good conversation with them, and they think I am using them as a market research, because well I talked about how I want to make games, but hey, isn't it normal to ask for friend's opinions? I don't know. I feel like he rejects my kindness and friendliness
Thanks everyone for the comments. I think yeah, I might have been trying too hard to be their friend, when they don't feel the same way. Maybe I am just in denial, that I can't be their friend, and letting go of attachments to them