u/Intelligent-League86

Sometimes when i see the majority of the pakistani population whose dad despite their shortcomings and controlling tendences love them and are their or atleats provide for them or have any sort of bond it makes me feel abnormal and alien, My dad was a alcoholic and abusive man who hit my mom and he and his family also treated her like shit and when they separated they never tried to maintain contact and my dad never provided for me, well how would he the man never could keep a job.

Due to psyhologiclal reasons my mom didnt take divorce from him not a offical divorcee title and now that man whose relatives are mnas wants her property. I am scared since our property is in a small city he through his relatives might get it and it mskes me sad and mad , this man is now in his 60s still obsessed with wealth even when he lives alone and cant let us be in peace. What should i do ?

Sometimes when i see the majority of the pakistani population whose dad despite their shortcomings and controlling tendences love them and are their or atleats provide for them or have any sort of bond it makes me feel abnormal and alien, My dad was a alcoholic and abusive man who hit my mom and he and his family also treated her like shit and when they separated they never tried to maintain contact and my dad never provided for me, well how would he the man never could keep a job.

Due to psyhologiclal reasons my mom didnt take divorce from him not a offical divorcee title and now that man whose relatives are mnas wants her property. I am scared since our property is in a small city he through his relatives might get it and it mskes me sad and mad , this man is now in his 60s still obsessed with wealth even when he lives alone and cant let us be in peace. What should i do ?

Sometimes when i see the majority of the pakistani population whose dad despite their shortcomings and controlling tendences love them and are their or atleats provide for them or have any sort of bond it makes me feel abnormal and alien, My dad was a alcoholic and abusive man who hit my mom and he and his family also treated her like shit and when they separated they never tried to maintain contact and my dad never provided for me, well how would he the man never could keep a job.

Due to psyhologiclal reasons my mom didnt take divorce from him not a offical divorcee title and now that man whose relatives are mnas wants her property. I am scared since our property is in a small city he through his relatives might get it and it mskes me sad and mad , this man is now in his 60s still obsessed with wealth even when he lives alone and cant let us be in peace. What should i do ?

I female in her 20s have a broken family due to which since i was a kid my mom moved back with her unmarried sister in my dead grandparents house, while my aunt has done a lot for me and still does financially buys gifts gives money for expenses despite me always saying no, she is a hard person to live with, she has no life or friends and is home all day and has health issues she is very involved in mine and moms life. She gets mad if i spend too much time in my room or if i sleep in late or study or hangout with friends or even if i order food without asking her.She even doesnt like it if my mom comes home late and in the morning expects mom to go to office late so she can make her tea and sit with her even thiugh they fight almost every second day. She even taunts if i hug my mom and expects me to be chummy with her which despite me respecting and having care for her i cant bring myself to do all that huggy huggy even though i always do what i can for her kanday dabana and make her food etc or bring medicines.

She keeps repeating sruff like you have your own life i never interfere but she also doesnt let me take a walk at night and she hasnt let me take an internship in another city and she fuels my mom too. She comes in my room and arranges things even when i told her i dont like people touching my things and she often expresses desire to share a room with me. She even got mad because she wanted to order halwa puri for me and i already made my breakfast today and said everyone here eats what and when they like and is acting cold and rude .

I am scared i will never be independant and i would have to live with her forever as i am becoming a doctor and this path isnt rewarding enough to gain indepedence and even if i do she might expect me to live with her and never get married or move out. On top of that i have no guy either or marriage prospects and i am approaching mid twenties and i lost my will to live as i know i will always be with her and my only comfort is that life ends one day.

I female in her 20s have a broken family due to which since i was a kid my mom moved back with her unmarried sister in my deadgrandparents house, while my aunt has done a lot for me and still does financially buys gifts gives money for expenses despite me always saying no, she is a hard person to live with, she has no life or friends and is home all day and has health issues she is very involved in mine and moms life. She gets mad if i spend too much time in my room or if i sleep in late or study or hangout with friends or even if i order food without asking her.She even doesnt like it if my mom comes home late and in the morning expects mom to go to office late so she can make her tea and sit with her even thiugh they fight almost every second day. She even taunts if i hug my mom and expects me to be chummy with her which despite me respecting and having care for her i cant bring myself to do all that huggy huggy even though i always do what i can for her kanday dabana and make her food etc or bring medicines.

She keeps repeating sruff like you have your own life i never interfere but she also doesnt let me take a walk at night and she hasnt let me take an internship in another city and she fuels my mom too. She comes in my room and arranges things even when i told her i dont like people touching my things and she often expresses desire to share a room with me.

She even got mad because she wanted to order halwa puri for me and i already made my breakfast today and said everyone here eats what and when they like and is acting cold and rude . I am scared i will never be independant and i would have to live with her forever as i am becoming a doctor and this path isnt rewarding enough to gain indepedence and even if i do she might expect me to live with her and never get married or move out. On top of that i have no guy either or marriage prospects and i am approaching mid twenties and i lost my will to live as i know i will always be with her and my only comfort is that life ends one day.

I female in her 20s have a broken family due to which since i was a kid my mom moved back with her unmarried sister in my dead grandparents house , while my aunt has done a lot for me and still does financially buys gifts gives money for expenses despite me always saying no, she is a hard person to live with, she has no life or friends and is home all day and has health issues she is very involved in mine and moms life. She gets mad if i spend too much time in my room or if i sleep in late or study or hangout with friends or even if i order food without asking her.She even doesnt like it if my mom comes home late and in the morning expects mom to go to office late so she can make her tea and sit with her even thiugh they fight almost every second day. She even taunts if i hug my mom and expects me to be chummy with her which despite me respecting and having care for her i cant bring myself to do all that huggy huggy even though i always do what i can for her kanday dabana and make her food etc or bring medicines.

She keeps repeating sruff like you have your own life i never interfere but she also doesnt let me take a walk at night and she hasnt let me take an internship in another city and she fuels my mom too. She comes in my room and arranges things even when i told her i dont like people touching my things and she often expresses desire to share a room with me. She even got mad because she wanted to order halwa puri for me and i already made my breakfast today and said everyone here eats what and when they like and is acting cold and rude .

I am scared i will never be independant and i would have to live with her forever as i am becoming a doctor and this path isnt rewarding enough to gain indepedence and even if i do she might expect me to live with her and never get married or move out. On top of that i have no guy either or marriage prospects and i am approaching mid twenties and i lost my will to live as i know i will always be with her and my only comfort is that life ends one day.