u/Intelligent-Try1944

Will try to keep it short and sweet, my boyfriend & I have been long-distance for slightly over a year and were talking about getting married soon. He is in AU and Im in India, there were times when he used to go off the radar for a couple of weeks the comeback put it on him being an "avoidant" and I used to well accept it because I trusted him and gave the benefit of the doubt. We were going thru one off those phases right now and I don't know why I just got some sort of intuition earlier today to check hinge....

Well, i made a profile put his area code while logging in and some filters and BAM THERE HE WAS LITERALLY had to just swipe just 02 profiles.

I am soo heartbroken but there is no way I am going to confront him, I don't want his side; I have removed him from my socials and whenever he decides that its time for "avoidant" phase to get over he can just do that with someone else cause I'm done. Cheating is a big NO.

All I keep wondering is was any of it real? Was I too trusting? Was he on that stupid app the whole time?

Irony of it, we met via hinge and all his prompts today were 90% the same and all the pictures were the ones that I used to love 🤡

Correct me if am I wrong. Was Kalita at Nadya's wedding? Its all about the "Cousin" content and I just feel its soo trady?

Me & my partner are in Long distance relationship of one year have been discussing about getting married' for a few months and suddenly from the past past 3-4 weeks he is being distant and today he told me that now marriage is not on his timeline.

I just want us to get back on track, we love eachother.

I have no knowledge about spells, have been intrested for a while! If someone could help I'll be very grateful 🩷

I need some advice, me (31F ) & my boyfriend (32M) have been together for 1 year and all of it has been LDR. Both of us are Indians - Im based in Delhi & he is in Melbourne.

Being 31 & Indian is not helping my case as my family has been pressuring for me to get married and my mother had me very late both my parents are 65+ (just for context)

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My boyfriend is a textbook case of an avoidant partner and he shuts me out for 3-4 weeks at a stretch when things start to get too much for him! Around april we started to talk about getting married seriously and decided to tell our parents in may - june after getting some things in order. i was really excited and finally thought everything was going right and he never made me feel that i was pressuring him into something -;he was the one who asked me if I'd like to get married in 2027.

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Now after giving me every hope he has shut me out again completely - no response - we have been through this before but the whole marriage part was never in play.

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I feel like I'm done carrying everything alone, I give him enough grace and compassion when he has meltdowns but I don't feel like he understands what kind of pressure I am under when it come to getting married and my family.

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My family wants to matchmake me and every time i turn them down, i feel like i am being very selfish.

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I love him, feel like he is my soulmate but is it all worth it? Should i stay or just walk away?

Status is still applied of visa portal, Is this good or bad? Anxiety is eating me up!!!!!