Is it possible for him to come back?
Quick edit: forgot to say I'm 23 F and the guy is 25.
I think I need a man's perspective on this one.
The guy I've been dating ended things with me a couple days ago and I'm just very confused.
For some slight background, we work together and ended up getting together after a work night out. He ended up asking me to go for drinks and I wasn't really sure if it was a date or not. During said drinks we ended up decideing it was a date. I don't want this post to be super long so essentially we have been on three dates over the span of about a month, as well as spent nights at eachothers houses. After the last date we went on I drunkenly decided to see if he wanted to make it official. To which he basically said not right now but we are on the right track. Ngl this really confused me and I think I took it to heart a bit more than I should have.
Everything took a turn for the worst on Saturday when I went out for my friends birthday. We had planned for me to go back to his after the night out. Which I was incredibly excited for and basically spent the whole night telling everyone about. I went to visit him at work before going to a bar/club. In said place a guy approached me and asked to buy me a drink. I thought I'm technically still single and I'm obviously not going to go home with him or anything so I can have a free drink and a little dance. I drank, I danced. He sat with us for a little bit then left. I thought that was the end of it then he came back later in the night again asking if I wanted a drink. So I did. He asked to kiss me and I didn't say anything, but he kissed me. I went back to dancing. He followed and danced with me. Kept spinning me to face him to kiss me. I actively was trying to just dance with my friends. The bar/club was closing and the guy I was dating finished work so I left and ran to go and meet him. I told him that I kissed a guy and he freaked out as we were walking to his. Once we got there he said I wasn't coming up with him and I needed to call someone to come get me. I was a little drunk and put up a bit of a fight, said I wasn't leaving. To which he left me sat in the doorway of his place. I ended up calling my friend to come meet me and crying on the phone to her whilst trying to figure out where eachother were. Not the greatest situation. He messaged me the next morning saying something on the lines of; ' I don't think we should continue seeing eachother, what happened happened. No ill feelings'. Which ngl broke me. I really like this guy. I am now very confused and just hoping there is something I can do.
So essentially, I would love some advice.
I want to add that he has been cheated on in the past, which I believe is why he ended things. I also wanna say that we never had a conversation about being exlusive. I never had plans to see or be with anyone else but the conversation was never had.
I would so love a man's perspective on the situation and tell me if it can be saved etc. I just need an outside perspective so my brain can stop being overloaded.
Please and thank youuu