Need advice
Hey Everyone, I’m super confused and need some advice on what to do and what’s going on in my situation.
I went on a date with this girl 2 weeks ago (24) and I’m also (24). We had an amazing day together, conversation flowed easily and we flirted a little too. We probably spent 4 hours together before I dropped her home, a goodbye hug was really nice. The next day I reached out to see if she would like to meet for dinner as we had discussed it the prior day. The plan was to go to her favourite restaurant but we both agreed to just have something light so we settled on frozen yogurt.
The next day rolls around and we are eating frozen yogurt in my car having a really good chat about things going on in our personal life’s. We finished our food and went for a little walk, I gave her my hoodie as it was night time and she forgot hers. We walked and looked at all the nice lights from our city, I found a rose bush and picked her a rose as I thought it was appropriate at the time. We had already kissed by this stage and were holding hands the whole walk. We talked about doing things together in the future for example she said she’d take me to her church which I thought was a big deal even though I’m not religious at all I agreed to go with her. She also told me that she has had some pretty tough relationships in the past and she told me when I slightly hinted at what she was looking for that she just wants to be happy and that boyfriends Havnt made her happy.
It’s getting late in the night so we decided that it was home time. We pull up to her house and we both get out, have a long hug and a lot of kissing goes on. She kept my hoodie which I don’t mind about and we parted ways. I’ve now gone away for a work for a few weeks so won’t be back in my city for a little while and won’t be able to see her. We exchanged social media accounts so we can still communicate while I’m away, but this is now the interesting part.
I think I’ve overstepped with the messaging as I jumped straight to saying Good morning hope you have a great day and similar messages showing that I actually do care. I’m not getting much in return and very short answers from her and takes a long time to reply which I can understand as she’s busy with her own life and career. She dosent really ask how my day was or anything of the sorts.
I have backed way off now and just limiting my messages as I don’t want to “scare” her away or make her think that I’m too much.
I do also understand that we have only met twice and she has no obligation to me
Any insights into this situation would be amazing because idk what’s going on as she showed so much interest and attraction when we were together and now I’m getting nothing.