u/Intelligent_Layers

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What was it like? Did they change or get worse? Any stories from those who knew someone that did and the outcome? Research purposes folks, keep the "don't do it!" to yourself unless it comes with a true experience or witness account. Tyia.

I’ve been in an on-and-off relationship with this man for almost 3 years. The relationship has been abusive in pretty much every way—mentally, emotionally, psychologically, financially, and physically.

He’s currently in prison because he kept violating protective orders and assaulting me.

We had a baby together… and we lost her due to a co-sleeping accident. I was the only one there. He didn’t come to the hospital, didn’t come when the ambulance came—he said he was scared of getting arrested. That alone changed how I see him forever.

Even before that, he didn’t really show up as a father. He wouldn’t even claim our child unless I agreed to be with him and “move past” everything he’s done.

Now that he’s locked up, he goes back and forth between blaming me for him being there and then acting like he understands and wants to “fix things” so we can be together and even get married when he gets out.

Here’s where I’m struggling…

Part of me still loves him. But more than that, I feel this deep, overwhelming grief over losing our baby. And in my mind, I keep thinking about having another child… like it’s the closest thing I’ll ever have to her again.

I keep having this thought: stay just long enough to get pregnant again, make sure the pregnancy is stable, and then leave him for good. Don’t tell him where I go, just disappear and raise the baby on my own.

I know how this sounds.

He’s already said before that he wouldn’t “let” me leave, especially if we were married or if I got pregnant again. He’s controlling and spiteful, and he’s never been stable—no job, no car, no place, and he constantly makes things worse every time he comes back into my life.

So I guess my question is:

Has anyone ever felt like this or done something like this?

And more importantly—can someone give me real, honest reasons NOT to do this?

Because right now, I feel like I might actually go through with it, and I don’t know if I’m thinking clearly or just acting out of grief.

I never was supposed to have him around baby girl. He never hit her but would scream loud as possible while I was holding her and hit me several times while I was holding her. He made it very clear he's only interested in control over me, what I have and what I do. I unfortunately don't see that changing.