u/Intelligent_Mess9403

I have a best friend but she has kids and I'm really such a homebody and I love my peace and quiet. She still wants to have me over for sleepovers like we are still in high school even though we are grown adults. And I just can't take it. I'm ready to tap out after about 4 hours of the noise. The children, the crying the whining, the sound of their various devices video games music devices etc. By the 6th hour it's all I can do to not start snapping at everyone. I feel like an awful person because I love these people but by the time I get home I just want to dig a hole in the backyard and bury myself in it. Does anyone have any tips on how to survive these situations?