I went NC at the beginning of April. Collected all my belongings that were still at my parents house, moved, and cut all contact.
They did some shitty things since then (turned up at my old house, turned up at a friend's house, turned up at the workplace of my ex-roommate, asked my therapist whether they should call the police on me, the full shebang basically).
Since I am still in uni, they financially supported me before I went NC. It's a legally required thing here in Germany, but they did that without a fuss for quite some time, even being quite generous with the amount I got.
To go NC, I prepared to be financially independent and got a job and my own healthcare to do so.
Right after I went NC, they send me some money as an Easter present. Now it's the new month and they didn't just send me the money they used to send me, but also roughly 25% added money.
While I can use that money right now (had to unexpectedly pay double rent for a second month +moving expenses since I don't own a car and had to rent one for the move), I am a bit mad at them.
Like do they really believe, this is going to get me to talk to them again? Money? It's the only way they managed to show any kind of love towards me ever. Everything else was always overshadowed by their words not matching their actions. And they truly believe I will change my decision over some (not even huuuge amount of) money. Lmao.
I'm using the amount of money that they would legally be required to give me anyways, but putting the rest to the side and not touch it. I'm quite positive they won't do anything and they really don't have any legal case to getting that money back, but it's better to be safe than sorry.
Truly, they annoy me so much. Lmao