Boyfriend lying about other women 37F and 44M
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I really don't know how to feel anymore. He's lied to me about several women now with the excuse that he doesn't tell me because I "get mad". Which definitely isn't true. I have zero issue with girls he talks to that hes been open and honest about. I get upset over the lies and its hurting my trust. Last night his phone was going off and I asked him who are you talking to and he lied and said it was te tax lady...tax lady at 9pm at night ya ok sure. So I check his phone and sure enough he was lying again with a new girl. I also then discovered hes been looking this chick up at least once a day for the past 2 weeks. I love this man so much but I just don't know how to cope with this. It makes me feel he is still always on the look out for another woman.
Any advice positive, negative, constructive criticism please share with me. I truly love him but this just keeps happening and each time he claims he will start being more open and then that doesn't happen. She's not the only girl he constantly looks up either. And I am so hurt and feeling like I'm just not good enough. We are supposed to be celebrating our 1 year in a few weeks 😢
What are others thoughts on this situation?