mom keeps asking me to sleep with her
Hi, so I don't really know where else to ask and this matter feels difficult to me.
I am turning 18 in four months and my mother is 55. She constantly asks me to sleep with her and questions me when I say no
I refuse because I feel like I should be independent and it makes me feel vulnerable when sleeping with a parent.
I am in a relationship, I should be sleeping with my girlfriend, not mother. but my mom keeps on asking and asking, is that normal??
I've tried to set boundaries but she just keeps on guilt tripping me and venting her anger on me for days after my refusal. then she acts like nothing happened and acts all loving to me just to lash out at me later.
shouldn't she seek such affection from men her age? this feels like emotional incest to me tbh
I'm so confused
- summary:
my 55 yo mom asks me to sleep with her (im almost 18) and I'm uncomfortable also confused because of this