My(f21) bf(m22) doesn’t seem very interested in sex with me?
We have been together for a year and 5 months. He doesn’t seem like he cares about having sex much. I had this issue once before, but that ex took antidepressants so he never initiated and after months I got tired of initiating alone, so we had sex like once a month towards the end. Now I am confused because my current partner does not take any medication, and this has been going on since around half a year-ish, we do it once MAYBE twice a month. My libido fluctuates a lot, there’s few times that I’m actually the one to really want to, but I’ve been trying to initiate the past two nights, and he just turns away so I can’t kiss him, ik he’s trying to sleep because he works early but it’s surprising. Like me, he has long stretches of not caring about sex and not being turned on. We both usually get in the mood once the other person initiates but then we both don’t initiate cause we aren’t turned on so nothing happens. He doesn’t watch porn and neither do I, and it’s not a cheating issue. I thought guys this young always wanted to have sex and it leaves me wondering if it’s me.