u/Interesting-Try-6562

I have been wanting to do Darshan at Kundalpur for quite some time. I will be visiting in August, but I don't know how to make the most of it!

Have only known and followed Shwetambar rules and rituals, not very sure about the Digambar etiquettes, and hence don't know how to make the most of my visit.

A few questions to start with - How do I get to perform Pakshal (abhishek)? Or puja?
What to wear? Will they allow us a room there?

Also, are females allowed inside the temple? What all can my wife participate in?