AIO or is my bf trying to kill me?
so my boyfriend 19M and I 19F have been in a relationship for about 9 months now.
we have a great relationship in my opinion. I support him in everything he does, and he does the same for me. we get along really well and we agree on all the same things. we never fight or argue, or at least we didn't until about 3 months ago. I wouldn't call them arguments or fights, but heated conversations that we put to a stop before they get too bad.
about 3 months into our relationship, we were already talking about our kinks and he told me that he had a choking kink. at first I was fine with that because a little squeeze around my neck here and there can be hot. and that's all it was for about 3 months when he all of a sudden started getting more agressive with it. and I'm not talking squeezing just a bit harder, I'm talking full on strangling. at times he does it hard enough to leave finger marks on my neck that last a few days.
everytime this happens, he just apologizes and says he was "in the moment" and that he doesn't mean it, but it's really starting to scare me. its gotten bad enough where at times I genuinely cannot breathe during sex until he lets go.
so idk guys let me know what you think. is this an over the top choking kink or a murder kink 😭.