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So quick background I m 31, married, have been in relationship earlier and was able to enjoy sex, even after marriage it went fine for 1-2 month but now from last 1 year, sex is extremely painful, I always end up having a tear and some blood, even after lot of lube it pains a lot and the for next day it remains swelled. I don’t know what to do coz of this we barely have sex once a month and my libido had died. Should I see a gynac or sexologist?