Venting here. my boyfriend and I broke up not long ago and we were living in my house which I’ve owned the past six years.
We were dating just under two years but anyway, he was a manipulative abusive lying stealing jerk. Who just happens to have really wealthy parents anyway he convinced or manipulated his dad into buying the house literally right next-door to mine so now we are next-door neighbors.
It is also really frustrating because I worked hard to buy this house on my own and I’ve been here like I said six years, and then his dad just buys him his own house right next-door. I don’t get it. They could’ve bought any other house in the area or he could’ve rented an apartment .
Red flags were there from the beginning and I wish I didn’t get tricked by his manipulative charm . I feel like this is a disaster situation. I am beside myself. I love my house and living here, but I don’t know if I can be next-door neighbors with him.
Yes, this is real. It’s very crazy. I don’t know what to do in this situation. Frankly, there’s nothing I can do.
Oh, and to make it worse, here’s a list of his bad behaviors :
Drinking and becoming violent, partial drug addict, he stole from me my medication’s, he took photos of my credit cards, which I found in his phone, along with a slew of texts trsh talking me to literally everyone for the past months and months behind my back to his family and friends. From the sounds of it, he’s been planning to move out for a while as soon as he possibly could, so he was just using me for I don’t know how long and frankly doing a pretty good job making it seem like he cared. Also, he crashed my car while driving it and it was paid off so I had to buy a new one.
I feel like the situation is almost comical, but not really because it’s my life and I have to be here. Right now his dad is up visiting and buying him a bunch of shit for his new house because he’s daddy’s spoiled b**** and can’t buy a house or do anything on his own. Anyway, I’m beside myself and done venting. This seems pretty crazy though.
Oh, and to add to it, my neighbors on the other side of me are also completely insane. Mainly the woman and has come on my property and verbally assaulted me over trees that fell on her property and was just really rude and nasty again. I love this area and house and it’s right on the lake and it’s beautiful and cute and peaceful and I feel like now it’s just all ruined.