35M dating 32F. We have had 3 dates and all went well. We kissed/made out briefly at the end of the first. Did the same on the second with a longer make out at the end. Third date, I asked her to my place and cooked a nice dinner with wine. We haven't had sex yet, but I touched her breast above the shirt. I did want it to progress, but she basically told me to slow down.
I did tell her that I am interested in seeing where things go with her, but don't want to put any labels on it yet and I am not seeing anyone else. She said the same.
She is extremely beautiful, I would say a 10. Absolutely flawless. I am maybe an 8, but I have a business and doing well financially.
She left on a trip and said we would talk, but hasn't called me (using WhatsApp since she is traveling). We have texted once per day at the end of the day with a little back and forth. I want her to enjoy her vacation, so I am avoiding sending too much while she is away.
I am wondering if she doesnt find me as attractive, so she didnt want to have sex? Do invite her back to my place for the fourth date or wait until the fifth? I ask because I believe sexual compatability is important in a relationship.
I havent dated in a while because I was so focused on growing my business.
Is this normal or is there something else going on?