u/Interesting_Living_4

keep going after the wrong type of girls and I don’t know how to change it

I’ve noticed a pattern where I keep getting involved with girls who are either emotionally unavailable, complicated situations, or I don’t fully trust. I’ll still get attached and then end up stressed, confused, or feeling like I need validation from them.

I’m starting to realize this is more about me than them, but I’m not sure how to break the cycle.

Has anyone dealt with this before? How do you figure out why you’re drawn to certain people and actually change it instead of repeating it?

I’m trying to focus on myself and build healthier habits, not just keep repeating the same situation. Help