AITA? - sex advice plz
AITA?
I was sick last week so my husband and I didn’t have much sex. We had sex yesterday and he couldn’t finish. It was only 20 minutes so maybe time played a factor into that. Sex and his moods go hand in hand. He had a lot of anxiety and I could tell his mood was off. I offered to blow him later when the meds wore off a bit.
Fast forward to later, my stomach is in a lot of pain. I’m still down, but told him I’m a bit uncomfortable so positioning maybe weird because I didn’t want any pressure on my stomach. I blew him for 2 straight hours before telling him I was getting a little sore and that if he’s looking for his happy ending we need to speed up. He agrees. So I’m throwing down putting in work, he’s literally face f****** me, and still can’t finish after another 20 minutes. My body hurts from how I was positioned and I eventually stopped. Nearly 2.5 hours in… mind you he kept saying how amazing it was and he was trying not to finish which was making me upset cause at that point it’s just painful and that was what my 20 minute heads up was.
He was upset with me telling me how much anxiety he has now and that he hates how much his mood is tied to sex. Scoffed for like an hour before bed and was pouting.
AITA for not caring about his anxious feelings at that point? I was so defeated hearing him upset last night while in bed and in my head I was getting depressed. I did what I could.