u/Interesting_Way2364

It took me 3 years to finally realize I’m the problem. I always knew deep down that there was some sort of disconnect in my relationships and friendships but no amount of confrontation truly was enough. It took one girl that I led on for months to make me realize that, I always just felt deserving of someone’s love, time and affection. I thought by doing the bare minimum ie, flowers, cooking, nice words, it would get me what I wanted and what I thought it needed. I really underestimated my ability to make people feel bad, and shrugged it off when told I was in the wrong. I’m not sure what this stemmed from or why, but I want to make a change to be more considerate for loved ones. I’ve hurt at least three girls one of which is one of the kindness and most genuine people I’ve ever known due to my arrogance. I’m ready to take accountability for myself.