Sometimes I feel like the odd man out with adoptees
It seems like many are ether angry with or resent ether their adoptive parents or their bio. I don't resent anyone. The only irritation i have with my birth mother is she won't tell me (or cant) who my real birth father is. Her husband at the time was the man on my original birth certificate. However found out via dna it is not possible for him to be so. (A man 14 years his junior is. I found my grandmother via dna to find she also placed him up for adoption).
Other than that one issue I am not upset about any thing. I just got more people to love and more people to love me. I did go through a stage of well why didnt she want me as a teen until I met her. I find it hard to relate in some ways to other adoptees in that regard. I got an amazing family who even sold their home to pay for a life saving surgery. Who would go out to the ocean at 1 am because I could not sleep to take me swimming to wear me out. Who would be up all hours of the night the first 6 years of my life holding my hair back as I vomited or cleaning it up (the reason I needed the surgery). Now I also got more people who care. It sucks because I dont relate to adoptees but I also get the everyday person who tries to say I am not my parents real kid and they are not my real parents. (To me my adoptive are my real parents and bio are bonus family). It is a frustrating place to be. Nether side gets my veiws.