Hi lads,
Too much info here but I’ve noticed moles appearing all over my body. I have VHI but have been told to register with a GP. Whats the best way to go about this? I’ll also be due for a pap smear soon and feel completely lost
Thanks :)
Hi lads,
Too much info here but I’ve noticed moles appearing all over my body. I have VHI but have been told to register with a GP. Whats the best way to go about this? I’ll also be due for a pap smear soon and feel completely lost
Thanks :)
Very curious about a pattern I've noticed and wanted to get some opinions and perspectives.
I notice a lot of employers feel a type of way when they see you owning a side hustle or building a personal brand (e.g via social media online). As far as I see it, an employer to have you 9-5, 5 days a week and as long as you're not violating any terms or your contract. Anything you do outside of that should not be coming up in discussion.
I'd love to see how other people view this? Have I got this wrong?
If you run a business as an owner how do you feel about this topic? If you're someone who has ran a side gig or built a personal brand, how did you deal with this side of corporate/tech life
Hi everyone,
Wanted to get some advice on my financial situation right now and need to hear some opinions (not sure if my though process is right)
For context I’m F, 22, 55k a year. Already have BSc and Msc. Currently contributing 8% to pension (employer matches 5). I have been spending lots of money on clearing debt, qualifications and training this year and only have roughly 500 in my emergency fund as we speak. Now I know realistically if I put my head down over the next couple of months I could build an emergency fund of 6,500+ by the end of the year but I was thinking of putting 600 towards one qualification and another 800 towards another.
Long story short, am I being stupid by prioritising these qualifications over my savings? I know they would help place me higher in terms of market value and earning potential but don’t know?? Anyway, tell me your thoughts
Cheers!
Hi
Just of curiosity, I'm just looking to hear from devs who have transitioned into management roles (non coding). Do you think this is a role that lasts long term and is enjoyable? what are the main skills and qualifications you would recommend for someone looking to move and grow in that space. If you want to share… what do you do, what was your technical role before hand and has salary still been quite good?
Thanks!
Hi everyone,
I’m 22 F (yoruba) and have been dating 24 M (igbo) for 2-3 years now. For context we are both of a Nigerian heritage (hence the tribes mentioned in the brackets) but we were both born and raised in the west (uk, ireland, france, etc…)
Recently I’ve found my heart feeling rock hard towards his family. For some context my family have always been extremely welcoming of my boyfriend (lets call him Alan, for the sake of this thread)
I struggle with alan’s family alot. They don’t really make much of an effort with me and things always feel somewhat surface level. It got to a point where I felt like I was overextending myself to maintain something. I guess my family are so social and connected and I just really craved that for his side too.
I found that his sisters would only call me when they needed advice (career related) as I’m doing really good with my career right now. His mom would check in once in a while (most of the time when she was trying to talk to him or get some inside scoop on his siblings - which I oviously wouldn’t give). Outside of this I was at a family event recently (baby naming event) and his uncle called me fat in yoruba (thinking I wouldn’t understand because of my British accent)
I’m really struggling with this because my mom and dad are so easy going with alan, welcome him like a son and always look out for him (e.g we don’t live together and if my family visit our town they always make sure they see alan aswell before they leave whereas his family couldn’t care less about seeing me!)
AITAH for taking a step back and honestly not really wanting a relationship with them anymore. I’ve distanced myself from his moms calls, have started refusing to visit his parents house with him and just don’t feel comfortable with them anymore. Sometime I wonder if its worth continuing the relationship because wtfffff!!??
And now he’s starting to speak to me about engagements, marriage etc….
Anyway I’d love to here from other people here. Am I wrong for doing this. What would you do if you were in my shoes?