Boyfriend and I had sex and he finished in me after I told him not to a week ago
Hi so me and my partner have only been together for maybe a month now. And the first time we ever had sex he didn’t offer to wear a condom (I didn’t ask him to either so I’m partially to blame as well) and he ended up just not pulling out which I thought was wild because typically I feel like you should ask to do that? Anyways afterwards I told him that I’m not on birth control and that I need him to either wear a condom during sex or pull out. Well this mans d is huge so condoms are I guess pretty uncomfortable even the large ones. But he tried them.
this most recent time we hung out he didn’t pull out again. This is about a week apart from the first time. I told him that it made me really upset because it feels like he just doesn’t care. I was crying about it. He seemed genuinely concerned and apologized and said that it would not happen again and that he feels bad to have made me feel that way. I told him that I need him to be just as invested in my boundaries as I am. He agreed.
It felt like a good conversation and I want to give him a second chance because every other aspect of our relationship has been amazing. I want to know if this is a bad idea, like should I have just ended it then and there? I’m worried about being able to trust him with my body again.