u/InternationalRoad225

10 month old- sick of co sleeping! HELP!!

My 10 month old is sleep trained for naps and for the beginning of the night. He goes down great. The problem is after that…He always wakes after 3 hours (around 11 pm) and I feed him (EBF) and pull him into my bed. We then co sleep the rest of the night and nurse all night but I am over it. I want him to sleep in his crib the rest of the night. We tried husband going in and soothing and ferber but I think we are at the CIO stage now. He becomes hysterical with check ins and cries a ton. Question- do I allow him to have this 11 pm feed and then place him in the crib and start CIO then? Or when I hear him cry at 11pm do I just not go in? He eats 3 meals a day and is a healthy 85th % boy. Thank you for any and all advice.

TLDR: 10 month old goes down great- wakes after 3 hours like clockwork to feed. Then wants in bed with me. CIO before or after the feed?

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