my child deserves a version of me that isn’t stretched too thin
Got an implant inserted today. Before having kids and even nung nanganak na ko, at least two kids talaga ang nasa idea namin ni husband since we both have great relationships with our siblings.
Ngayon 2.5yrs old na yung panganay ko, nagsstart na ko makabawi sa sarili ko by being physically active and my mood is sooooo much better as in. Nung nag start ako mag walking mas matagal na ko ma-overstimulate and mas mahaba na yung pasensya ko, siguro kasi mas nagkakaroon na ako ng oras para sa sarili ko everyday. Tapos recently nag start na din ako mag pilates which I really enjoy.
Then narealize ko, THIS is the type of mother that I want to be. Nabibigay ko yung 100% ko sa anak ko without losing myself. Very supportive si husband and nag agree naman siya na very important din naman na may oras ako for myself.
Protecting your peace and knowing your limits is responsible, not selfish 💛