was this sa?
new here. sorry if this isn’t clear- i’m worried.
It was a year ago ish and I was engaged to this man (m-20’at the time. I was f-20 at the time). we drank together. he went to bed and was asleep for awhile. I blacked out/lost consciousness and came to to him roughly doing it with me. I tried to move and speak but could barely ask “condom?” and that was it. I went back out again. it was rough too
I was just lying there. I woke up in a pool of my own vomit and in pain down there.
i’m concerned bc I may have said yes at the time, but i’m confused why I would consent then wake up to me lying still and not being enthusiastic or even able to speak or moan at all.
I can try to provide more details if needed, but I just now realized what happened. idk why. he also may have sa’d my cat
also I probably have no evidence of either so.. what can I even do if it is sa?