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We did the classic golden route as a couple travelling with our toddler:
Tokyo (with a day trip to Lake Kawaguchiko) → Hakone → Kyoto → Osaka.
Here’s my honest review and what stood out to us:
📍 TOKYO (5 nights)
The observatory at the Tokyo Metropolitan Government Building is so underrated. It’s free and the views are fantastic.

Tokyo Tower honestly reminded me of a mobile tower 😅 and felt underwhelming.

Asakusa and Sensō-ji Temple were not particularly awe-inspiring for me personally, but still something you shouldn’t skip while in Tokyo.

Harajuku was great — lovely cafés, restaurants, and shopping.

teamLab Planets was genuinely fun and immersive.

The depachikas (department store food basements) in Ginza are AMAZING. I loved wandering through all the food aisles. There’s usually nowhere to sit and eat though — better to take your food to the terrace.

Akihabara was nice, but I think it would’ve been more enjoyable if we were anime enthusiasts or travelling without a toddler and could spend time in the arcades.

Shibuya was surprisingly underwhelming for me. Shibuya Sky felt overhyped — maybe it’s better after sunset (we went around 5 pm). Even the Shibuya Crossing just felt… normal?

We rented a car and drove to the Shibazakura Festival, and THIS was one of the highlights of the trip. Absolutely incredible Fuji views. Online reviews warned about huge crowds, but we didn’t experience that at all. Ironically, Sensō-ji and Fushimi Inari were far more crowded. Lake Kawaguchiko and Yamanaka were beautiful too. Renting a car here was 100% worth it.

📍 HAKONE
Hakone was the perfect break from the crowds. We stayed one night and had stunning Mount Fuji views directly from our room. The hot springs and lake were picturesque, and honestly one of our favourite memories was simply sitting by the lake and relaxing.

📍 KYOTO
Renting a car in Kyoto was another excellent decision. We had so much more energy to explore, and parking was surprisingly easy everywhere.

Yasaka Shrine and the Shirakawa Canal were absolutely magical at night.

We took the hiking route through the bamboo forest up to the top of Fushimi Inari, then walked back down through the main torii gate path. Since we did it this way, it never felt crowded and the views were beautiful.

Kinkaku-ji was stunning, but I actually loved Ginkaku-ji even more. The moss garden gave it such an otherworldly atmosphere. We also walked the Philosopher’s Path — it was a bit “meh” for us, though I can imagine it being beautiful during cherry blossom season.

Shisendō was peaceful and is an underrated must-visit.

Giō-ji felt underwhelming to me, but I absolutely loved Adashino Nenbutsu-ji.

Ninenzaka in the evening is something special. Absolute must-visit atmosphere.

📍 OSAKA
I LOVED Osaka. The people felt noticeably friendlier and the food was incredible. We only spent one day there and I genuinely regret not staying longer. We visited Dotonbori — yes, crowded, but the vibe was fantastic.

Overall thoughts:
• Renting a car in Fuji/Kyoto made the trip dramatically easier with a toddler.
• The most crowded places for us were actually Sensō-ji and Fushimi Inari.
• Kyoto at night was probably the most magical part of the trip.
• Osaka deserves more time than most itineraries give it
• Tokyo was the most tiring as it involves a lot of walking inside the stations itself

While transiting through Hong Kong International Airport, I stopped at the Burger King kiosk in Terminal 1, Level 6, to order food for my daughter.
During the ordering process, I experienced significant difficulty understanding the staff member due to an accent barrier. Instead of responding with patience or politely clarifying the order, her attitude immediately became dismissive, condescending, and rude.
I initially ordered 2 pieces of chicken and fries (73 + 23 HKD). The staff member then pointed to a meal option costing 98 HKD that included chicken, fries, and a drink. I had not ordered the meal because I did not want the drink, but after she pointed it out, I thought it made sense since it appeared to include more chicken.
When I responded by saying, “Oh okay, it comes with fries,” she replied in an irritated and angry tone, “I told you already,” while rolling her eyes and making rude hand gestures. At that point, I was the only customer there, so there was no rush or pressure from a queue behind me.
What upset me most was that I remained calm and polite throughout the interaction. I did not create confusion or initiate any confrontation. The entire situation escalated because of the staff member’s attitude and hostility toward a customer simply trying to understand the order.
When I calmly pointed out that she should speak politely to customers, she dismissively responded with “thanks” in a way that was clearly intended to cut off the conversation rather than address the issue. She remained angry throughout and it seemed like she just wanted me to leave.
The interaction left me feeling deeply uncomfortable and humiliated. I would have honestly left without ordering if the order was for me and not my daughter