Hi didnt show up. Did i overreact?
I will try to make It short. I was texting this Guy on bumble. We matched and he started the conversation. Everything went well so, since i was free this afternoon i asked him if he would like to meet in person today. He said yes. I proposed to walk in the park and then maybe go to a bar or a restaurant. He said It was too hot and he didnt want to be outside. I then proposed a bar and he said yes. I asked him what time would be ok for him and he said 8:00 pm. I said ok.
I got ready, made sure i looked handsome, smelled nice, etc.. i was on time but he wasnt there yet, so i ordered something to drink. 5 minutes passed. Then 10. I texted my friend saying i had the feeling he wasnt going to show Up. At 15 minutes i texted him saying i was already there. No response. My friend told me to leave and meet him, but i still was hoping he would appear. At the 30 minute Mark i texted him that i had been waiting for him and he didnt show Up, so next time would be nice to give me a heads up. I left.
Then i met my friend, i vented a little and then we where just chilling, having an ice cream.
Two hours since i texted the guy, he answers:
"Hey, my lawyer called me about my visa and i just hung Up on him. Sorry"
I kind of felt It was a cheap excuse so i did what i've never done: unmatch him. I know I make It sould more dramatic than it probably is, but guys dont usually find me attractive, so i always feel that i have to settle with whatever comes along. Actually a few months ago i would have given him a second chance. But now im tired, It feels disapointing to make the effort, put interest, and have nothing in return. I felt this was disrespectful and i think i did the right thing unmatching. However, my mind keeps telling me that im not enough to be this picky.
I dont know if It makes sense. What do you guys think? What would you have done in my place?
Sorry about the typos, english is not my first language.