My [21F] boyfriend [23M] somehow never has time for me but it’s justified, what do i do
I (21F) have been dating my boyfriend (23M) for a little less than 6 months. When we got together he didn’t have a job and was the most sensitive, kind, loving and accommodating person ever.
As of late, he has had no time for me, we are more like friends, he takes hours (sometimes over 10 hours) to reply, doesn’t call me and always has valid reasons for cancelling our dates.
I know that sounds really crazy, but he actually has everything awful or everything overwhelmingly amazing happen to him only when i expect him to do something nice that day or even a date.
For example, brother runs away from home, dad gets a promotion, someone gets laid off, family comes to visit, he totals his car. Everything when we are supposed to go on a date. And i have receipts of everything, so i know he’s not lying.
I’ve talked to him about it but he refuses to understand that he’s hurting me and always says that he loves me a lot, the situation is just out of his hands.
Is there any way i can solve this ridiculous situation? Because even if i leave, I’ll be the bad guy here and I do love him.
TLDR: My [21F] boyfriend [23M] keeps cancelling on me and disappearing but it’s all for justified reasons and i know he’s not lying. How am i supposed to make it better?