Me M23 her F21
So i M23 am in doubt (this is some fake acc i got to write her just in case), i met a girl F21 and really i am into her though her family and ex boyfriend relationships were extremely violent and toxic. Went on a date we had really good time though when we would get touchy she would be kinda hesitant kinda like if she expected a slap instead of touch type of stuff. So i gave her some space to get comfy push the pace etc. In the end of date we arranged another one (which she asked for which is funny as we were saying goodbye). Now since I never had experience with girls who had past similar to this. Does me not sealing it first date mean its over and I am getting fz or should I keep it up like this and let her get more and more comfortable in next 1-2 dates? She seems genuinely like a good girl and if time is needed i would let it be, but i am not trying to stay and enjoy friendzone tbf.
Tldr: She says and show signs of trust issues and toxic relationships but seems open with me but those issues seem to be stopping her a bit. Does she need a bit of time or is she friendzoneing me?