I understand where she's coming from
Honestly, you need to understand her way of thinking. I'm not a fan of hers, nor have I heard a single one of her songs, but I learned about her attitude toward fame from a YouTube video and stumbled across this subreddit.
Let me tell you something, it's terrifying to be a public figure, and she's one of the very few celebrities who has been rebellious enough to come out and say it. You gotta applaud her for that. When you're as public as a park bench in the city park, you need to set boundaries, and that's exactly what she's doing.
Imagine having the diagnoses she has said she has, and then not only having to deal with everyday life but also with millions of eyes scrutinizing and analyzing you as if you were some sort of object. In her mind, she probably got into this business for the performance aspect of it, not the constant public scrutiny. It's really sad that you can't see past that.