u/JGill2001

Hi,

I (M, 24) have been in a relationship with another man (M, 24) since January. He’s been vague about his sexual past, but I understand he has a relatively low body count (around 15) but I don’t really care about that?

We’ve started having anal sex. He’s a total bottom. I’m average-sized. The thing is, there’s no need for prep, and with just a bit of spit I can penetrate him. I’m not sure if he actually feels me, and sometimes I get the impression that he exaggerates his moaning (but that’s subjective).

I don’t understand if he’s “loose” just based on sensations, since I was a virgin and he’s my first. So how to recognize a “loose” hole (from appearance?)? It’s more curiosity I’m not going to dump him.