I have been in my first poly relationship this past year, we just broke up after a year and few months. They broke up with me, asked me to stay friends, I said I'd think about it.
They then told me about all their new dates, sexual hookups, and also started online dating this new guy right after our breakup (like the next day), telling me about all the things we used to together, they now do with him.
I now requested no contact because I found myself become ridiculously hurt by hearing these things. They told me I might just not be poly.. But none of these things bothered me when we were in a relationship. I enjoyed hearing their positive encounters and seeing them so happy when dates went well while we were together. I just feel kind of discarded now.
Is it true, am i just not poly? I feel broken over this breakup, that I can't even proceed dating anyone else for the time being and probably a while.