WIBTAH If I (29m) double down on what my fiance (27f) said today and cancel the wedding, which is this weekend?
TLDR; I am with my fiance for 4 years, and engaged last year. Things started to get worse and worse after that (had huge fights) I always thought it was the stress of marriage preparetions but I am feeling depressed and feel like I'm being emotionally abused by her. Today was the last straw for me but I am not sure if I really should cancel the wedding and if i WIBTAH.
Todays fight was about how to go to the venue. (From directly the hairdresser or from my parents home) She accused me of being a mommys boy, accused my mom making me fight her wars?, called my mom idiot and said she wanted to break up (even after I said I didnt know this was a big issue for her and we can do whatever she wants) Then I said its a big desicion to make just days before the marriage, she was talking hurtful and I didnt want to talk to her right now.
We didnt talk for 5-6 hours. After I called her she said she talked with her family about breaking up with me, also talked with couple of friends, since it took so long for me to call her and apologize. I said that she is out of her mind and I wanted to think whether I really want to go through with this and wanted time to think about all. I dont have much time lol so I want to have others opinions.