I (23M) am in early dating stages with a coworker (23F). We have been in a bit of a situationship for about a month and a half now, but we finally had the time and place to "mess around" somewhere that isnt a car (thank god). We basically had a house to ourselves after going out for breakfast, an outing in the city, and just enjoying each others company on some small errands.
When we finally got to the house, we were just watching a show, cuddling, talking, etc for a while. Honestly fine with me, but admittedly I was also hoping for something more. She is absolutely gorgeous, and she loves attention, so i offered to give her a massage. She raises her eyebrows, teases me, and strips to her underwear. She gets some lotion, and I get started. I probably massage her for the better part of an hour and a half as we watch a show. Mind you, I'm talking full body, head to toe.
Eventually it gets a little more heated when I get to her ass, and then her chest. We kiss, I tease her, its all good fun. I ask her if its alright to slip my hand down and she guides me (hot!). I rub her clit until she cums. For context, I'm really big on communication during sex and I made her promise to never fake it bc I actually would love her to enjoy it and let me improve.
So she cums, we relax for a bit, keep watching the show, and then we cuddle a bit longer. After she feels less sensitive, I ask her if she would be open to round two, and she says yes. This time i focus on her g spot with fingers (again, having fun, as I do enjoy pleasing her). Eventually she cums again, great! I go to the bathroom and wash my hands (she was on her period).
I'm also in my underwear at this point, and I'm thinking wow, this has been fun, I did really enjoy pleasing her... but damn, I would like to be on the receiving end here too.
Now, I want to be very clear, I dont think she "owes" me anything. I don't think thats fair that all of the things I did for her "came at a price".
But at the same time, i want her to want me to please me the same way I wanted to please her (does that make sense?)
Maybe I'm the problem for not directly asking, but like I said, I really didnt want her to feel like she "owes" me.
About 15 minutes later of cuddling, her friend calls and it sounds like a bit of meltdown, and it basically concludes the night. We kiss goodbye, go home, and text each other to make sure we got home safe. She seemed pretty happy (god i hope so) and I'm fairly certain there's more dates to come.
But WIBTAH for saying i felt like that she's a bit selfish? (I'd phase is better, but the meaning is the same)